engagementEvery Wednesday I get to dissect a sex or relationship dream for my friends at  Em and Lo: Sex, Love and Everything In Between  This week’s dream is from a gal who is dreaming about her first crush…

I’m about to get married. I dreamt of my crush for the first time. I know he likes and love me but he pushed me away because of the distance. In my dream he visited me we had dinner together , we had a short chat and we went joy riding. I never expected to dream of him.

Lauri: Congratulations and Mazel Tov on the upcoming nuptials! Let me assure you that your dream is not anything to worry about but rather is a good sign you are moving into the mindset of marital bliss in a very healthy manner.

It is common to dream of past loves before stepping into that final frontier we call marriage. It is the way your inner mind sorts through and comes to terms with all the men that came before THE ONE! All the previous men were lessons well learned, preparing you for the man you finally feel comfortable sharing the rest of your life with. And it is no surprise that your first love, or first crush, may run through your dreaming mind at this point in time. Why he was the first one to ever give you those tingly feelings within various body parts. He was the first one to bring out that inner desire and yearning that feels so good it aches!!  He awakened you to those feelings that will forever be with you… and that is why he is in this dream and – let me warn you – may very well continue to make appearances in your dreams for quite some time.

But keep in mind he is no longer playing himself. Nay, he is the personification of excitement, tingles and bubbles, which means he will forever be a reminder to your inner mind that you need to continue to feed that passion within (hence the dinner) for as long as you journey down the road of life (hence the joy ride). In other words, as your marriage becomes more and more comfortable and more and more routine, don’t let the excitement and the spice fade… because when it does, Mr. first-time crush is sure to pop in to your dreams to remind you to keep the passion alive!

Dreams help us in every area of our lives, relationships, career, overcoming the past… you name it!  When you can understand your dreams, your life gets better because decisions are easier, tough situations are clearer and you’re just plain smarter when you dream! My book Cracking The Dream Code will help you learn your own dream language so you can get an edge in life. 

“Your books are my favorite gifts to give!  Thanks Lauri!”   – Vicki, Henderson, NV