I agree with all your "set points" (rules to remember). I know you are writing for a popular audience but I needed to respond because what we consider most often "Universal meanings" don't always apply and I think people don't understand the awesome depths dreams go to, even as they provide a commentary on waking life. This hit home for me recently as a friend's dream which ostensibly was about her career went deeper to the core of her issues with what accepting the nurturing male inside her might consider and how she had been affected by attitudes and survival mechanisms from childhood. Thanks for responding.